Whenever
things like this happen neighbours and friends are bound to draw various
conclusions.
It
is a more puzzling tragedy because suicide is not common among youths in
Nigeria.
Till date, people are wondering why an undergraduate of the
University of Lagos identified simply as Seun committed suicide on January 19.
His action has left his family and friends in shock.
Claims by neighbours that he was a brilliant student in school could
not be ascertained as efforts to investigate which department he was, proved
abortive.
He lived with his aunt at 9, Alhaja Adijat Lawal, Beesam,
Mafoluku, Lagos, where the incident was said to have occurred.
When our correspondent paid the family a visit, Seun’s aunt was
still in shock.
“Please, I cannot say anything because this is a big tragedy for
us,” said the woman, who did not give her name, said.
But some neighbours who spoke to our correspondent gave an
insight into the kind of person Seun was and the circumstances surrounding his
alleged suicide.
Most of those who spoke declined to give their names because
they fear the deceased’s family might not look kindly upon them for speaking on
their tragedy.
A young woman said of Seun, “I knew he was a student.
I just did not know he attended UNILAG. He was an easy going and quiet man. We
probably would have been close if he was not the quiet type.
“The day of the incident, I just got home from an
errand and I was told Seun had been rushed to a hospital. When I asked what
happened, I was told he went out to buy a substance and locked himself inside
his room.
“I still don’t know what happened to make him take
that action. I think those in the house when he went to buy the substance must
have suspected he was going to do something drastic because they later forced
the door open, but he had already ingested the substance he went to buy. They
quickly took him to the hospital.”
It was learnt that Seun died later that evening in the
hospital.
The young woman who spoke with our correspondent said
she did not know the hospital Seun was taken to for treatment.
Our correspondent went to St. Nicholas Clinic, which
was the nearest to the street to find out if any young man was brought there on
January 19 for suspected poison ingestion. A nurse, who identified herself as
Ibidun, said their records showed no such thing.
A beer joint operator on a street
adjacent to Seun’s street said he knew the deceased too. But he could only
remember him as “a very quiet young man of about 27 years old.”
The young woman who had earlier spoken
with our correspondent put Seun’s age at around 28.
Suicides are still seen as taboo in many
parts of Nigeria, a reason family and friends of victims would rather not speak
about it in public.
“Please, whatever you want to know, I
think it is better you speak with the family,” a tailor around the building
where Seun lived told our correspondent.
Seun’s suicide remains shrouded in
mystery more because the police have said no report was made about it.
Public Relations Officer of the Airport
Police Command, Lagos, Mr. Dennis Ifijen, said, “We have no record of the case.
I have not heard about it.”
Seun is the second undergraduate of
UNILAG to commit suicide in the last one month, Saturday PUNCH learnt.
On New Year’s Eve, Damilola Durojaiye, a
computer science student of the university, also allegedly committed suicide at
his parents’ Akute-Ajuwon, Ogun State home.
The 19-year-old was said to be a
brilliant student with a cumulative grade point average of about 3.9.
He reportedly stayed at home when his
parents went for the cross-over service, only for them to come back and see his
body dangling from where he hanged himself.
The Police Public Relations Officer in
the state, Mr. Muyiwa Adejobi, said at the time that a suicide note was found
where Durojaiye hung himself.
It probably may never be known what drove
Seun to consider suicide as the way out like Durojaiye, but the incident is a
pointer to the fact that problems faced by youths in the country are increasingly
becoming psychological
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